After living in so many different homes following my first divorce, I have learned a lot about searching for safety in different homes (relationships and in money) and then finally seeking it within myself…

After my first divorce in 2020, I found a townhome in New Market, Maryland for my kids and I. I was terrified to start out as a single mom after having been with my ex for 22 years. As luck would have it (or divine intervention), my business took off financially right after I made that move so I had more than enough to provide for me and my children.
I was happy there but had a difficult breakup where the man I had been dating came to my home in a threatening manner so I no longer felt safe there and began looking elsewhere.
I next moved to Rockville, Maryland where I stayed in a luxury apartment near the airport since I was hosting my abundance retreats and wanted to be in the energy of abundance myself. My kids didn’t like it there so I ended up returning to New Market where I got a home near Lake Linganore. It was a beautiful home but when my finances became too tight to keep it, I broke my lease and started house-sitting across the US to save money.
I watched people’s pets for free in exchange for staying in their beautiful homes while I built my astrocartography business. This was one of my favorite times of my life by getting to stay in such beautiful locations while becoming certified as an astrocartographer at the same time. My intuition was at its height during this time as I was spending a lot of time in nature and with animals. This is a time that I will always look back on fondly as a full-time digital nomad.
At the end of that journey I reconnected with a former partner who told me that he had just bought a home in Frederick, Maryland and that I should come stay with him until I found a place of my own again.
Our relationship progressed quickly and he told me he wanted to marry me and start a family with me. We had a quick courthouse wedding and after that things went downhillI just a few months after. I could see that we weren’t compatible for the long haul but since we were married I agreed to try to make it work and to go to therapy. It got worse rather than better so I ended up moving out and separating from him.
I then went back to the apartment complex that my first husband and I had previously lived in before we were married since the area was familiar to me and I needed a safe space to rest and recover from my latest marriage.
I ended up getting offered a flight attendant position with a top US airline so headed to Atlanta, Georgia next for training. After graduating and filing for divorce from my second husband, I decided to move to my airline base in Boston. This home felt safe to me in the beginning because I liked being surrounded by so many fellow safety professionals as I was healing from the loss of my marriage. I also liked the change of scenery and the fact that no one knew me or my ex there. However, the neighborhood was rundown, crowded and loud. The internet didn’t work well either so it made it difficult to take clients or to do my workout videos while I was there.
As an Astrocartographer, I decided to take my own advice and see where would be better for me for my business, love and friendships and found that Minneapolis was a sweet spot for me since my airline has a major hub there too. I confirmed it with my intuitive guide so that’s where I’m headed next! I have a little over two months left in Boston and then I head to my next adventure just in time to host my Virtual Next Chapter Retreat in early October. At our retreat we’ll be diving deeper into how to find safety from within after experiencing relationship trauma, financial trauma or the loss of a loved one.
If you have just experienced an ending and would like to know where to head next where you would feel more supported, you can book a private reading with me here. If you don’t know your birth time, you can check out this video for how to find it. 🙂
XOXO,
Julie






